So I have been drowning lately – work has been crazy, training has been eating my time like I eat leftover Easter candy, and frankly, I’ve just been tired. I was talking to my husband, trying to figure out why I feel like he has so much more time than me. It’s not that he doesn’t do his share – he does a lot of the housework, I meal plan but he helps with the cooking, he does a lot of other stuff with the kids too – so why does he “appear” to have so much more free time than I do?
Well, we actually started to figure it out! Here are some of the differences:
|Work: 37.5 hours/ week||Work: 40 hours/ week|
|Commute: 1.5 hours/ week||Commute: 5-7 hours/week|
|Prep time: 2.5 hours/week||Prep time: 5+ hours/week|
|Errands: 1-2 hours/ week||Errands: 5+ hours/week|
|Blogging: 0 hours||Blogging: 6+ hours/week|
|Total: 43+ hours/week||Total: 61+ hours/week|
Basic math? Other than blogging, which I do because I enjoy it, I have at least 12 hours a week of commitments Bruce doesn’t have. Plus, although he is training for the Fargo Marathon in May (so he is running more), we are both training for the Racine Ironman 70.3 in July, so our workout demands are similar… except he’s faster than me, so he takes less time to cover the same distances!
Sigh. No wonder I’m tired. Most nights, I’m on the couch blogging while we both “watch” TV (Is it watching if it’s really just background noise?). Of course, this is only after squeezing in a workout after work… and trying to get to bed by 11:30 so I can get up by 6:00 am (or earlier!) the next morning!
Bruce is also able to come home or go to the gym and get in a swim, bike or run on his lunch hour – I am not able to do that (oh yeah, I forgot… my 40 hours are more like 42.5, because I don’t really get a break).
So we were talking this past weekend, and he pointed out to me, if I’d LET GO of things, he could do more. He’s right, I know… I’m a bit of a control freak, but he is willing to do these things, I’ve just always DONE them. So I’m working on that – this week on Thursday, he will be picking up one of our kids while I run the other one to an appointment. I’ll split the grocery list this week, he’ll tackle one store, I’ll do the other one. It will save me time, and still get everything done. Same thing with some of the non-standard household chores – I know if I give him a list, he’ll tackle them as he has time.
So that’s the new plan. Fingers crossed that it works, as I have been contacted to potentially do some guest posting on other blogs, and if I’m going to do that, I have to give something up!
Goals update: I was too tired to get up and go swim. Working nights just mucks up my swimming schedule. I did get a nice run in. I filed our tax returns, and I wrote two blog posts. Decent!
Goals for today:
1) Dentist appointment
2) Comment on 5-10 blogs
3) Write 2 blog posts